Speaking to Family Caregivers

When speaking to family caregivers, people with good intentions often say the wrong things.

Here are highlights from an online conversation about “what not to say to a family caregiver.”

1. Taboo things people say to caregivers
2. Advice that sounds like “you should”
3. Alternatives to saying “you need to take care of yourself”
4. Responding to offers of help
5. Don’t tell me “I’m a saint” or you “couldn’t do this”
6. How to communicate better with caregivers
7. Best ways to support caregivers, in words and deeds

Care professionals and friends can increase their support and empathy with good communication.

If you are speaking with a grieving family caregiver, a grief expert has tips for you here.